- Novice Monk: [Curiously] Master! Is there truly a destiny in this world where people are destined to meet?
- Master: Meeting someone isn’t always a matter of fate.
- Novice Monk: [Perplexed] Why not?
- Master: An encounter can be defined in two ways: one is fate, the other is destiny. In this world, some lives are inescapable. Sometimes, both fate and destiny come together in a single person. That person becomes both the destined connection and the unavoidable challenge in your life.
- Master: Fate brings you together with certain people, while destiny weaves the path that you walk with them. You may find yourself bound to a person by both forces—someone who is meant to cross your life’s journey and also someone who will present the greatest trials … But remember, the presence of such a person is not always easy. Sometimes, these encounters challenge us deeply, testing our patience, our growth, and our understanding of the world.
- Novice Monk: So, are these people meant to help us grow, even if they cause us difficulty?
- Master: Yes. They are part of the larger design of life, whether they bring comfort or challenge. Fate and destiny work together to shape who we become, through both the connections we cherish and the lessons we endure. In the end, it’s not just about the meeting—it’s about what you do with it. How you face the challenges, how you embrace the connections, and how you learn from both.
- Novice Monk: I see. It’s not just about being destined to meet, but also how we walk that path once we do.
Life is full of moments that leave an imprint, whether it’s a person who comes into our lives at just the right time or an event that forces us to grow. We often reflect on the idea of destiny or serendipity, wondering why certain things happen when they do.
People who cross our paths, whether briefly or for years, can profoundly impact who we become. Sometimes, it’s a mentor who helps us see our potential, or a friend who supports us through hard times. Other times, it might be a stranger whose words or actions shift our perspective. The influence these individuals have on our journey is undeniable, even if we don’t always recognize it at the moment.
Events, too, play a pivotal role in shaping us. These can be milestones like a graduation or a promotion, or even challenges like loss or failure. While some experiences are embraced and lead to growth, others may initially seem like setbacks. However, it’s often during the challenging moments that we learn the most about resilience, adaptability, and the importance of shifting our perspective
In life, some encounters feel destined, while others feel like challenges we can’t avoid. Both shape who we are, weaving together the fabric of our fate and destiny. They help us discover who we are, what we value, and what we’re capable of. Whether we realize it right away or not, the experiences and relationships we have are integral in shaping the story of who we become.
Embrace both the connection and the challenge. They are part of our journey.
Have you ever truly discovered what your destiny is? Do you believe it’s something we find over time, or is it something we create for ourselves through the choices we make? I’m curious to hear your thoughts on how fate and personal growth come into play when it comes to shaping your future.ng our future.
